When our phone rings at 1:22 in the morning, we answer it. Largely because Philippe’s mom is not doing well. This morning it was a call from the CCU (Cardiac Care Unit) telling us that Dr. Backer, Charlotte’s surgeon, had to postpone the surgery until tomorrow (Wednesday) because an emergency had come up.
I listened, took mental notes, and hung up. Philippe asked me three times if I was sure of what I heard and if I was sure that it really was the CCU. I thought, “Because a prank call at 1:22 in the morning would be so specific as to cancel your daughter’s heart surgery?!” But, I pulled the number up on caller ID and dialed it. Maybe the night nurse thought I was nuts, I don’t know. She found the gentleman who called me and he confirmed that I had heard correctly.
We rolled over and went back to sleep. I drifted off doing a mental inventory the fridge to plan dinner and realizing that I could pick my brother up from the airport. (We found out he was coming a day or two ago.)
At 7:30 a.m. Charlotte padded into the room and said, “Mommy, what happened?” I asked her to crawl into bed with me (Philippe had left for work) and I told her. Her immediate reaction was to whimper and crumble. Poor sweetie, such a big change of plans. Once I got her attention, I told her that we could have a real vacation day with no worries or concerns or pain. AND, she got to have a real visit with her uncle. And, by the way, was she ready for breakfast.
I also told her that in 2007 we had taken her to the hospital, waited for several hours (without breakfast or lunch) and then got sent home . That surgery went swimmingly, I told her. So this delay seemed right to me.
We had a great visit with my brother, who now really needs to learn to play Blokus. Everyone is asleep now and getting rested to try again tomorrow.
Our hearts go out to the family whose emergency delayed Charlotte’s repair. We don’t know know who they are, but we know we have something in common.
Because this is Heart Defect Awareness Week, Saving tiny Hearts Society will have an ‘About Us’ table along with our ‘Make A Valentine For Kids in the Hospital’ Station at Lurie Children’s tomorrow in the cafeteria around 10:30/11. Dr. Wax plans to come and do magic tricks. This event is a great way to meet families, see doctors and nurses and should end in the early afternoon.