Charlotte's Journey Home

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Throw-Back Thursday, Or Countdown & Flashback to Surgery

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Charlotte has been counting the days until her surgery. Last week, nearly every ride to school started with “20 days,” “19 days,” etc. Phil’s theory is that she is putting her life “on hold” until it is over and so that’s why she’s counting.

Another theory (mine) is that counting is her way of controlling the situation. In addition to counting, she came home one day last week with a sheet of paper on which she had written “Hospital Schedule, Day #1.” It was precious:

9:30 Wake up

9:31 Kiss m&d

9:45-11:30 Surgery

11:45-1:30 Watch a movie

I thought about this for a few days and then asked her about it.  She said it made her feel better to have a plan for the day so she wouldn’t get bored. I explained that the surgery would likely take more than an hour and forty-five minutes (Dr. Backer is a genius, but not a magician!) and that she might not be up for a movie afterword. She was, in a word, crushed. Until I told her could watch two movies on day two.

This morning Charlotte didn’t count down, so I did. I mentioned that in two weeks from today, the surgery would be over and she would be recovering. We talked about how day #1 of recovery might be the worst of it, like when you fall and the next day you feel really achy. Then she changed subjects (let’s face it Hasbro’s Equestria Girls is ever-so-much more exciting!).

In honor of Throwback Thursday, pictures of Charlotte on Day #1 of Recovery in 2005 and 2007.

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Cheating a little here–this may be just hours after the surgery.

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And this cute photo is day #2 of recovery in 2005. Her little scars ended up being so tiny that they were eventually covered with Snoopy bandaids.

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Day #2 2007

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Author: Culture Bean

I am a mother, a pre-published children's author, and a published academic. I am also a "mommy blogger," though I hate the term. My passions are reading and writing. As a professor, I strive to help my students think critically about the media and culture with which they engage. I've started this blog because it's time I put my money where my mouth is!

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